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Ann Coulter, a conservative journalist in America, has apparently broken her jaw and had to have it wired shut. (This is the most impartial report I could find on the incident.)
I am absolutely appalled at the crowing I have seen on the Net about this. So far only one person on my flist has, shall we say, indulged, but one is more than enough. (And no, I am not linking to any of it. It's easy enough to find, gods know.)
I pride myself on being a liberal, because I believe that liberalism embodies, among other things, the values of compassion and empathy towards people who are suffering, and I believe those values transcend political divisions.
IF SOMEONE IS IN PAIN YOU DO NOT FUCKING WELL GIVE THANKS. You do not express the hope that her pain will continue. You do not liken it to divine justice, for God's sake. That's THEIR line.
At times like this, I see what conservatives mean about liberals. We are hypocrites. We are stinking hypocrites if we allow ourselves to rejoice in the suffering of a single human being, and if we do then we deserve to be exposed in the fullness of our hypocrisy and take the full force of all the ammunition we have thus freely given to our opponents.
If anyone who reads this has, even for a moment, reacted to the news about Ms Coulter in the ways indicated above, I beseech you in the bowels of Christ to think again and be better than that. She is mistaken in many of her beliefs. As are we all. That does not in any way make it good that she should suffer.
I wish Ms Coulter a speedy recovery from her injury, and the rest of us the strength to resist temptation.
EDIT: apparently the latter wish is not required. Oh well, that puts an end to all the "from 52 to 48 with love" crap, I suppose. Back to business as usual, and when they're down, kick 'em hard. I should have known better.
I am absolutely appalled at the crowing I have seen on the Net about this. So far only one person on my flist has, shall we say, indulged, but one is more than enough. (And no, I am not linking to any of it. It's easy enough to find, gods know.)
I pride myself on being a liberal, because I believe that liberalism embodies, among other things, the values of compassion and empathy towards people who are suffering, and I believe those values transcend political divisions.
IF SOMEONE IS IN PAIN YOU DO NOT FUCKING WELL GIVE THANKS. You do not express the hope that her pain will continue. You do not liken it to divine justice, for God's sake. That's THEIR line.
At times like this, I see what conservatives mean about liberals. We are hypocrites. We are stinking hypocrites if we allow ourselves to rejoice in the suffering of a single human being, and if we do then we deserve to be exposed in the fullness of our hypocrisy and take the full force of all the ammunition we have thus freely given to our opponents.
If anyone who reads this has, even for a moment, reacted to the news about Ms Coulter in the ways indicated above, I beseech you in the bowels of Christ to think again and be better than that. She is mistaken in many of her beliefs. As are we all. That does not in any way make it good that she should suffer.
I wish Ms Coulter a speedy recovery from her injury, and the rest of us the strength to resist temptation.
EDIT: apparently the latter wish is not required. Oh well, that puts an end to all the "from 52 to 48 with love" crap, I suppose. Back to business as usual, and when they're down, kick 'em hard. I should have known better.
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Date: 2008-11-26 09:57 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2008-11-26 10:15 am (UTC)I wouldn't make fun of her pain but I certainly can forgive those who do. She is a special case.
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Date: 2008-11-26 11:51 am (UTC)There are lots of people I loathe, and I feel I'm justified in my loathing, but they're still human beings, and if they're in pain I can empathise. And I'm sure if I were a prominent figure in anything and I fell over and broke my jaw she would be very happy about it, and quite possibly say so in public, because she doesn't empathise, or only empathises with people who are like her. But that's one of the ways I've grown used to distinguishing between the people at my end and the people at hers, and it worries me when that distinction gets blurred.
Making fun of a political figure who doesn't know enough to do his or her job, or hasn't prepared sufficiently for a public appearance, is one thing. Making fun of someone because she's going through more pain than I've ever known is, to me, another.
But I'm glad you aren't one of those who did.
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Date: 2008-11-26 12:06 pm (UTC)I disagree, I think they're both equally cruel. To laugh at (rather than with) the first is mean - they're human beings suffering acute embarrassment, the sort of thing that wakes you out of a nightmare, like being expected to sing in public when unprepared. That they're a public figure is just a side issue.
Making fun of someone who's in pain is cruel.
Making fun of Ann Coulter's revolting beliefs...I'm right behind that one. Bring it on.
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Date: 2008-11-26 03:56 pm (UTC)Wellllll...it's occasionally (partly) my job to try to help a public figure to save face, and it's not always their fault. Usually it is, but not always.
I feel particularly sorry, at the moment, for the poor bastard up uploaded the wrong file to the Treasury internet site, for example. Been there, and while I haven't actually done anything quite like that, I've been around when someone else has, and it's not pretty.
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Date: 2008-11-26 12:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-11-26 01:36 pm (UTC)I am not in any way supporting anything she says, does, thinks, wears or has had intimate contact with. I am saying that crowing because she has had an accident is both mean-minded and politically stupid.
And I think I do understand the hell you've gone through, which is why I have got so wound up about the politics of a country I don't even live in, and why I've been so vocal in my anti-conservative posts. I don't think conservatives should ever be let anywhere near legislative or executive authority, and the fact that democracy allows that to happen is, I think, one of its weaknesses. But that is irrelevant to the fact that someone, a human being, was hurt through (as far as I can gather) no fault of her own, and people who I believed knew better are pointing and laughing, just the way her kind would if it happened to Keith Olbermann or somebody.
But, if that's okay with everybody, then I guess I'm just making a fuss about nothing as usual.
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Date: 2008-11-26 02:47 pm (UTC)And no, we don't have hate speech laws -- I'm very much in favor of free speech ... however that goes in both directions.
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Date: 2008-11-26 12:36 pm (UTC)I'm sorry--is there some reason to believe that she is in terrible pain? Is a broken jaw seriously more painful than, say, a broken arm (which I've had twice, both times as a child, and while the initial break I'm told provoked wails and tears I don't remember the healing process as being particularly painful--just annoying and itchy)? If a broken jaw is painful for longer than usual for a broken bone, is there some reason to think she doesn't have access to medical care, including adequate pain relief?
I expect the original fall probably hurt, but maybe we don't want to get carried away on this. I would mostly be worried about her getting adequate nutrition with a wired-shut jaw; she's already terribly thin. But even that doesn't worry me particularly; I'm sure her doctor is keeping an eye on it.
In the meantime, I'd enjoy the quiet, but I've never actually *heard* her, and as far as I know, her typing fingers are just fine. It's symbolically somewhat amusing, and groups of people who seen her repeatedly advocate legal attacks on their rights and physical attacks on their safety are more amused than others. It seems to me they have some right to be.
Of course, my views may be shaped by the fact that the gentleman who brought a shotgun into my church, killed two people and wounded six, apparently numbered Coulter among the authors he took inspiration from. (shrug)
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Date: 2008-11-26 12:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-11-26 01:51 pm (UTC)But on the other hand, what's so big and clever and morally upright about crowing because she's injured? It's just childish.
If she is evil, then show her up as evil. Demonstrate that she's an accessory to murder. Put that energy into getting her put on trial for incitement to murder and whatever else she has done.
Far better to give all that energy to countering what she says and does, rather than showing one's weakness by indulging in the less glorious aspects of playground behaviour.
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Date: 2008-11-26 02:30 pm (UTC)I am just saying that: 1) as far as I know there is no reason to believe she is presently in terrible pain, 2) I don't see how having her jaw wired shut will silence her in any way except symbolically, and 3) I don't see why any and every single liberal who is not perfectly compassionate with a bitter self-appointed enemy of all liberals somehow discredits the liberal movement.
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Date: 2008-11-26 02:59 pm (UTC)No matter what it is in your eyes, it's honest anger and venting it is healthy. I'm not going to police peoples' heads.
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Date: 2008-11-26 11:30 pm (UTC)Just sayin'.
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Date: 2008-11-28 04:41 am (UTC)Far better to give all that energy to countering what she says and does, rather than showing one's weakness by indulging in the less glorious aspects of playground behaviour.
Well, here's the thing: we do that, many of us, some privately and some in public. Ann Coulter steadfastly refuses to listen to views from another perspective. She does not, to be brief, behave like an adult.
She is regularly shown her evil. She then ignores what she's shown and goes on to yet another speaking engagement, talking about how Liberals Are Always Wrong About Everything And How They Are Evil Too. I am not exaggerating for effect; if anything I might be understating her basic message.
She spouts opinions. Her opinions are generally vile, pandering to fear and hatred. Her opinions frequently do not fit facts. She makes a living doing this, a very comfortable living. Facing facts could end that comfortable lifestyle.
Would I wish her to break her jaw? Heavens no. Do I enjoy that she has? No, but I do feel Schadenfreude. I will accept my feelings for what they are, and that's fine. Ann Coulter does not take up many bytes of my capacity.
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Date: 2008-11-26 03:53 pm (UTC)Speaking as someone recovering from a jaw fracture, it hurts long after the wiring comes out because you have to use your jaw every day for things like eating, drinking, speaking, coughing, and so forth.
I've never broken an arm, but I did break my leg once, and this has been far worse.
As for whether to feel sorry for her, well...nah. :-)
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Date: 2008-11-26 11:05 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-11-26 11:15 am (UTC)Sometimes if we feel that people "deserve" something and we've accumulated bad feelings for them for some time yet it's really like opening a vent and letting off steam before the gauge gets into the red.
Bad things happen to good people. So it's really nice to witness if they happen to bad people, too. You know I don't believe in "divine justice" because there are no Gods, but I can appreciate a funny coincidence like that woman having her mouth closed shut, or (my last case of severe Schadenfreude) that Austrian Nazi demagogue politician Heider dying because he DUIed his car too far to the right side.
Yes, funny. I didn't kill him. I didn't make him drink and drive. All his fault and it wouldn't have been funny had he killed anyone else in the accident. But as it is I say "Yay, bastard got what he deserved." and yes, I smiled.
I think it's absolutely o.k. to vent off about these things on the internet and not to suppress them. In my eyes that'd be hypocritical.
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Date: 2008-11-26 12:25 pm (UTC)My general attitude toward a stranger in a mishap is sympathy. I absolutely loath those "You've been framed"/"funniest home videos" thingies - it's not funny to see someone run against a lamp post.
So people don't have to *deserve* my sympathy (because that's what I actually thought I'd write), they automatically get it.
But they can *un-deserve* it by being mean and bad. We have a saying, "Wer austeilen kann, muss auch einstecken können" - "Those who can hand out/administer (criticism, spitefulness, mischief...) also have to accept/take it."
So if someone hogs the spotlight demeaning people - they then had it coming.
I have cried tears for the suffering and dying of strangers. And in other cases I feel good because of some coincidental universal justice being served.
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Date: 2008-11-26 12:55 pm (UTC)I haven't, fortunately, seen any wishes for worsening of health, or exacerbating her pain. Those are simply Right Out.
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Date: 2008-11-26 09:15 pm (UTC)This is pretty much my position - the comments I have seen have been pointed in their irony, and happy that Ms Coulter has been silenced. It's not a case of crowing over her injury - just laughter at the irony and much relief.
Most humour is cruel. Even - or particularly - in real life.
As for Ms Coulter, I really and honestly couldn't care less that she's in pain. She is not a nice person.
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Date: 2008-11-26 01:58 pm (UTC)However, if I can deduce this all correctly, it's liberals and anti-conversatives who are doing all of the crowing at Coulter? Aren't these the same people who Coulter talks about? And therefore, doesn't this just add more "fuel to her fire" AGAINST these types of people, so she'll continue her commentary when she gets well and people will continue to hate her for anything she says? If anything, the crowers are bringing it about to themselves by keeping the mutual hatred alive between these parties... and it won't stop until a) they get along or b) they ignore each other.
Just my train of thought... (shrug)
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Date: 2008-11-26 10:22 pm (UTC)I don't believe I'm exceptionally big or clever or morally upright. At least...I didn't...
No, that can't be right. It must be me that's wrong. It always is, with things like this.
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Date: 2008-11-27 01:10 am (UTC)Kinda like the Nyrond way, no? ;-)
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Date: 2008-11-26 04:38 pm (UTC)Other than that, I agree with you. And I agree with you with all the political leanings reversed. So do the conservative columnists who I respect.
Just for the record.
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Date: 2008-11-26 07:53 pm (UTC)I've modified that position very, very slightly over the years: there have been a few people at whose death I felt a kind of exhausted relief, that they wouldn't be able to hurt anyone anymore. But that's wanting them out of the way, not wanting them to hurt, which does no good for anyone at all. I loathe Ann Coulter, but I hope she gets through her injury with as little pain and as swift and good a recovery as is possible.
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