Ongoing gardening
Apr. 19th, 2011 09:28 amYesterday we cut back the holly tree so that I can walk underneath it without bending double. It will need a more serious cut if I'm going to get the wooden shed (which is taller than me) into the corner where the plastic Shed will have been, but enough is enough for one day. We're still not sure what to do about the apple tree--we missed the window for cutting it back because I am a lazy slob and it's now bursting with blossom, but it desperately needs it.
Jan started to use her new computer yesterday morning and discovered that while it's been on an ad for Norton Online Backup has appeared which we couldn't get rid of without shutting down and restarting. On advice from Currys we downloaded the Norton Removal Tool to get rid of the trial version that came with it (which is the apparent source of the ad) and lo, the NRT window was massively too big for the screen and we couldn't use it. Eventually I found the Win 7 equivalent of "Add or Remove Programmes" and we got rid of it that way, but it provided the usual half hour of panic and frustration that happens whenever Jan first tries to use something new and nice. We've emailed Norton, but I'm not expecting a useful answer.
Today we are expecting a plumber to fix the leaky valve in the downstairs loo, and then I plan to cart away the sacks of rubble left over from previous gardening efforts which have been cluttering up the place for years. My back and legs are now sending me rude messages on a regular basis, but there's nobody else to do this stuff--if we lived closer to London I might dare to ask friends to come and help, but a two hundred mile drive each way plus heavy lifting in between is a serious proposition, and my spaghetti boggle plus our sparkling company doesn't cut it as recompense. Even if I had any mushrooms in the house.
The point of being a husband--the main point--is to be useful. I can't understand any man who doesn't get that, who doesn't understand that the ineffable gift of being allowed to share the life of the one you love comes with responsibilities. As it is I've shirked and goofed off and failed far too often--if I'd done more of this stuff when I was relatively able-bodied there wouldn't be so much to do now when I'm less so. Since it seems unlikely that I'll ever be in better shape than I am now, the prospects aren't good.
The rest of the Shed will be gone by the weekend. Thor hast spoken.
Plumber is here. Off we go.
Jan started to use her new computer yesterday morning and discovered that while it's been on an ad for Norton Online Backup has appeared which we couldn't get rid of without shutting down and restarting. On advice from Currys we downloaded the Norton Removal Tool to get rid of the trial version that came with it (which is the apparent source of the ad) and lo, the NRT window was massively too big for the screen and we couldn't use it. Eventually I found the Win 7 equivalent of "Add or Remove Programmes" and we got rid of it that way, but it provided the usual half hour of panic and frustration that happens whenever Jan first tries to use something new and nice. We've emailed Norton, but I'm not expecting a useful answer.
Today we are expecting a plumber to fix the leaky valve in the downstairs loo, and then I plan to cart away the sacks of rubble left over from previous gardening efforts which have been cluttering up the place for years. My back and legs are now sending me rude messages on a regular basis, but there's nobody else to do this stuff--if we lived closer to London I might dare to ask friends to come and help, but a two hundred mile drive each way plus heavy lifting in between is a serious proposition, and my spaghetti boggle plus our sparkling company doesn't cut it as recompense. Even if I had any mushrooms in the house.
The point of being a husband--the main point--is to be useful. I can't understand any man who doesn't get that, who doesn't understand that the ineffable gift of being allowed to share the life of the one you love comes with responsibilities. As it is I've shirked and goofed off and failed far too often--if I'd done more of this stuff when I was relatively able-bodied there wouldn't be so much to do now when I'm less so. Since it seems unlikely that I'll ever be in better shape than I am now, the prospects aren't good.
The rest of the Shed will be gone by the weekend. Thor hast spoken.
Plumber is here. Off we go.