How and when one expresses negative emotions matters too. For me, anger is the emotion that says something needs to change, and working toward that change is sometimes expression enough.
It makes sense to me to not say things that will act counter to the changes you feel need to happen, causing hurt and problems instead of solving those things.
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Date: 2011-06-25 08:20 pm (UTC)It makes sense to me to not say things that will act counter to the changes you feel need to happen, causing hurt and problems instead of solving those things.